Fear. The number one motivator in this world today. We fear concequences, we fear opinions (of us or other things/ people), but most of all, we fear being alone. Why? Why do we fear being alone so much? What makes us strive so hard for someone to want us? For someone to recognise us, (not our features, but who we are) for someone to care...
I am not going to give my oppinion right now, i want to hear yours first. i want my opinions to in no way... "influence" yours.
The need for love and acceptance is so intrinsic to my nature, that it's very difficult for me to think of it in third person and analyse it's cause. The most I can come up with is that the sense of security that I get from the people that I trust and love cannot be compared to anything that I'll ever get from anywhere else. At the end of the day, I live among people, and should I ever get into any kind of trouble (which I do a LOT), it's these very people I'll count on to bail me out.
ReplyDeleteSo basically, my fear of being alone stems from my need for my emotional security blanket. When I know there are people behind me, I lose my fear of falling.. :)